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plainsayplainsay  posted 1 year ago
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Mariya - The Dalit Christian Woman


There are several angles to be viewed in the story. Dalit, the poor down trodden of the society, Christianity, the religion which gives lot of hopes and converts people into its faith and leaves them in the lurch when a crisis arises in the lives of the converted, the upper caste landlord and his son  who commit rape of the poor girls.
As a story to attract sympathy it is ok. But the lives of the converted whether it be from dalits or from upper castes is very pitiable. Having abandoned their ancestral faith and entered into the alien faith it is very difficult for them to get adjusted.
Rape is a rape. It makes no difference if it be committed on a dalit women or a nondalit woman. Soliciting sympathy for a rape victim is the usual line of a story teller.
But reality is not far away from fiction. There are lot of muslim girls in Kerala who get married to men who are already married, get abandoned and go to prostitution. There is a term called "Mangalore marriages" in northern Kerala where muslim bridegrooms come from nearby Karnataka, marry girls from Kerala take substantial dowry by cash and jewels, leave them behind either pregnant or otherwise and disappear. These girls victims of deceit have no livihood but to resort to prostitution. If they are legally divorced they can remarry and look for a better life. But in many cases the grooms disappear and the girl has no hopes at all. This situation is worse than a rape. There are girls, teen aged girls with children to support, with no income. She may have to support aged parents also. What she will do, except sell her body. It is a very serious social issue. The parents of the girls are not willing to go to the police for fear of shame. Either women's organisations, or human rights organisation or the govt. should take action. These are all ground realities. Not Fiction.  But who cares? 

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plainsayplainsay  posted 1 year ago
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Think Again - When You Think You Have Lost


It is a natural process. Between sunrise and sunset what all changes happen around us is a matter of suprise. Unmindful of all the changes sun continues to rise and sets at the appointed time. Wind blows, it rains, birds flutter, plants gorw into trees, trees flower and then fruit. Fallen leaves turn into manure so that the trees may grow and the seeds may germinate. We pass our days, weeks, months and years to grow old and grow wise. New families are created and new relationships are establshed. It is a never ending process. What an amazing repetitive occurance which none can stop!

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plainsayplainsay  posted 1 year ago
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The Clandestine Meeting


This arranged love marriage is great, If all the marriages are so arranged.

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plainsayplainsay  posted 2 yrs ago
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Life Cycle of an Urban Romance


Meenakshi,
We have heard, seen, read  and written much about romance. It is same old story everytime. The participants have to adjust to each other's fancy habits if the relationship has to continue. Afterall we want the relationship to culminate in marriage. After the mangal sutra is tied it is going to be much sacrifice to get along. It is better to start right from the beginning.
Best of luck to both.
Good post, please continue.

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plainsayplainsay  posted 2 yrs ago
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Iyer Studies!


     You are absolutely correct.   I am one of those mamas who pass similar comment whenever I see a boy home on vacation.  Why did I do it? Just to encourage him. My own knowledge about the new branches of study is very limited. Because when I was doing my college studies there were not so many courses and fields of specialisation.  Just to add new material I have to depend on internet and impress the boys that I am uptodate in fields of education. 
 
     Some of these boys are over smart and behave as if they know everything or much more than this mama. To cut such boys to size, I may discuss plant genetics with an agricultural graduate, new discoveries in electronic engineering. This goes on. No bad intentions.  Just to impress the boys that mamas are not fools.  Sometimes I may have to discuss the problemd I faces with the airport authorities at Frankfurt, or at Heathrow at London.  How  I lost the luggage in Heathrow and how the US customes brought all my bags in tact and delivered to me at Austin, in the meantime the British Airways or Lufthansa gave me their cheque for $1000/- for all the inconvenience caused and the cost new clothes purchased.  How I went to Walmart or Sam's club and searched for food articles at the wrong counter and how I was politely guided by their staff to the correct shelf.  All these are just to impress the boys.  No harm meant.

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plainsayplainsay  posted 2 yrs ago
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Tidbits


Breasts are my weakness also. Licking them, rolling  my tongue around the nipple and soft sucking them are my favourite hobbies. It makes her crazy. You can continue to do it any amount of time without tiring any of us. The enjoyment is continuous and increasing. Soft sucking and hard sucking with occasional biting makes it heavenly experience. Alternating both the breasts you can spend hours and continue to give her pleasure  unceasingly.
Licking all the surrounding areas, pinching the unsucked nipple and then sucking it alternatingly builds up the tempo for a great oral sex session.

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plainsayplainsay  posted 2 yrs ago
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An apology note


You dont have to be apologetic. It was a nice story. But you could have avoided so much of bad words and voilance. Sex and erotica are for enjoyment. You have created the situation beautifully. Please continue such erotic tales.

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plainsayplainsay  posted 2 yrs ago
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No further Reservation in IIM, IIT & Medicals


There are so many illiterates in Karunanidhi's state whom he should teach basic alphabets. Caste politics are more in Tamil Nad than anywhere else. The country is going to dogs because of that. Karunanidhi should open up his school education free to all the people.

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plainsayplainsay  posted 2 yrs ago
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Mushy can't be pushy-Pak terror links frustrate Washington


Is the ISI of Pakistan an outside body? They are funding all the terrorist activities and train the unemployed youth of Pakistan into terrorists. Is not ISI coming under the control of the government of Pakistan. When Pak government says it is against terrorism their own another wing is funding and training terrorists. How can this happen.

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plainsayplainsay  posted 2 yrs ago
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The Widower And The Virgin


I thought  she would marry that bachelor boy and find herself in a mess.  Wisdom prevailed on her to marry an experienced person and build a family of her own.  How many girls are lucky like her. Many experienced girls with inexperienced boys find themselves in soup.  Here  it is the the other way around.  I am happy of the ending of the story. God bless them and their children!!

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